Thursday’s Trench Truth
Welcome to Thursday’s Trench Truth, which is all about relationships.
Do you tend to feel upset when you feel others are distancing themselves from you and/or do you have a hard time being alone, or…Do you enjoy time with others and feel comfortable in your own skin when alone.
Oh, I remember the days as a single mom and my son would be with his dad. I’d come home and the house was so quiet, and I’d literally fill up with anxiety, not knowing what to do with myself. I didn’t know how to be comfortable in my own skin. Oh, and I always had to have a guy in my life, or someone around in order to feel like I was someone.
That was so many healing years ago, and yet, I’ve still been known to say “I don’t need a man,” and I’ve heard many other girlfriends say that as well. Why do we say things like that? Well, from my experience, those words are spoken out of a past disappointment, hurt and even betrayal, but really, the only one that that attitude hurts is ourselves because God intended that we do life in relationships, not in spite of relationships. Life is a team sport and in order to really become more like Him, it requires the classroom of “relationships.”
Perhaps it’s time to discover the difference between self-dependence and healthy independence. If you’d like to learn how to feel comfortable in your own skin, have a balanced relational life, then plan on joining us in a trench near you to learn how to love those you do love.
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