Being comfortable in one’s own skin is not permission to stay alone ~KE

Thursdays Trench Truth

​Welcome to Thursday’s Trench Truth, which is all about relationships.
Do you tend to feel upset when you feel others are distancing themselves from you
and/or do you have a hard time being alone, or…Do you enjoy time with others and feel
comfortable in your own skin when alone.
Oh, I remember the days as a single mom and my son would be with his dad. I’d come
home and the house was so quiet, and I’d literally fill up with anxiety, not knowing what
to do with myself. I didn’t know how to be comfortable in my own skin. Oh, and I always
had to have a guy in my life, or someone around in order to feel like I was someone.
That was so many healing years ago, and yet, I’ve still been known to say “I don’t need
a man,” and I’ve heard many other girlfriends say that as well. Why do we say things
like that? Well, from my experience, those words are spoken out of a past
disappointment, hurt and even betrayal, but really, the only one that that attitude hurts is
ourselves because God intended that we do life in relationships, not in spite of
relationships. Life is a team sport and in order to really become more like Him, it
requires the classroom of “relationships.”
Perhaps it’s time to discover the difference between self-dependence and healthy
independence. If you’d like to learn how to feel comfortable in your own skin, have a
balanced relational life, then plan on joining us TONIGHT!
For more information, go tot www.trenchclassesunited.com/classes I hope to meet you
there.
Love,
Kim-Evinda